i feel like a lot of guys are afraid to hit girls during sex even if the girl like explicitly says that she’s into it and that is very depressing
i dont wanna hurt girls though man, ill do it but fuck i feel bad when i do.
just apologize if u feel THAT bad but wait until after it’s over. bust and then apologize it’ll be ok i promise
No but my ex in high school one time was on top of me, in the middle of everything told me to slap her, and persisted about it, so I did softly. She told me to slap her harder, so I did, and finally after a few tries she said it was just right, then I did it again, she reared her arm back and whacked me across the face so hard that you could hear the reverb off in the distance and I had a welt on my face for the rest of the day. Right away she busted up laughing, saying sorry, all that stuff, but the damage was done.
I’m afraid of hitting girls because 1. I don’t want to hurt them, and B. I don’t want them to kick my ass.